What is it manifesting?

This is simply bringing something we do or do not want into our reality.

We can all do it; we are all doing it.

We do it by thought.

Everything starts with thought.

In the book The Secret, author Rhonda Byrne encourages us to Ask, Believe & Receive. This instruction simply follows the words in the bible:

Matthew 7:7-11 - Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:

Mark 11:24 - Therefore I say unto you, what things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.

But before we ask, we need to make peace with what is. In his book Three Magic Words, Uell S Andersen says, “accept don't will.” By practicing acceptance, you create a state of allowing; when you fight what is, you create resistance.

Every thought, every idea, every being is vibrational.

When your focus your attention on something, even for a short period of time, your vibration begins to reflect the vibration of whatever you're giving your attention to.

The more you think about it, the more you vibrate like it, and the more you vibrate like it, the more of it is attracted to you.


The danger of wanting something is that in wanting you are noticing the absence of it, and this creates a vibration of lack.

You must feel as if you already have it.

In his book Feeling is the Secret, Neville Goddard says to manifest your desires you must ‘Assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled.’


What do you want?

When I ask clients this question, very often the response is what they don’t want, in disguise – 'I want to stop overthinking', 'I don’t want to worry about money anymore', 'I want to stop attracting the wrong type of partner'.

They keep the negative in the equation.

And here’s the thing, the brain cannot distinguish the negative. It registers the thing and then the reticular activating system (RAS) in the brain gets to work by showing us more of what we're trying to avoid!

When deciding what you want, take the words ‘I want’ out of the equation completely.

I want indicates you don’t yet have the object of your desire.

You cannot create from the place of lack, from a vibration of lack.

So rather than say ‘I don't want to worry about money anymore,’ say ‘I am wealthy’ And explore what that feels like.

If you want your business to turn over six figures, how would that make you feel? Would you walk taller? Would you get out of bed earlier? Would you smile more? Would you be kinder? Would you be happier?

Start with positive affirmations of how you would like life to be, how you would like to be.

‘I'm confident and carefree’

‘I'm physically fit and able to enjoy life to the full’

‘I have fun and adventure’

Notice the shift in energy in YOU when you compare the different sentences

That energy is magnetic


Why do you want it?

The common driver of desire is the belief that having ‘it’ will make you feel good, happy, and fulfilled.

But why wait?

Do whatever you can now to feel good - make it your dominant intent


To attract what you want you must align with it.

You can only do that if you match the vibration of the desired object – and you do this by deliberately feeling good.

Make peace with the things that are making you feel bad – then turn away from them and move forward


Let go of the outcome - Often we think we know what's best for us.

We focus on one single thing.

But we all know from experience that what we thought was best for us turns out wasn't so good after all with hindsight.

Ask for what you want and then say, ‘this or something better.’ There are infinite possibilities to fulfil your dream; don’t limit the universe by fixing on one.

Imagine that your perfect partner is waiting for you. Right now, you might not be able to reach him or her because you are solely focused on another.

Trust in the perfect outcome for you.

In his book You Are Enough, Panache Desai says,                                                    “Whatever is showing up is the perfect more for you”

Surrender to the idea that everything is working out just as it should.